![]() ![]() Try to remember that you're looking a curated list of someone's best-foot-forward. This can lead to a pretty inflated feed of over-the-top scenes while the everyday, normal ones get left out. Add those people to your feed, and over time, you'll slowly craft a network full of people who are doing kinky things that spark your creativity!Ī note of caution on social networks, though: let's all remember that most of us (myself included!) tend to post our most brag-worthy and impressive accomplishments. Want to extend your network even further? Consider searching by hashtags to find more people who are into the same things you are. Once you do, your feed will be full of people doing awesome things with the kinks you're into. On the basic end, you can use your social network (especially Twitter or other adult-friendly networks!) to follow people into the same things you are. Speaking of social networks, they can be a wonderful tool in helping rekindle your inspiration. Read: 10 Important Lessons I Learned When I Found My Local Kink Scene Set Up a Social Network Try a Google search to see if any discussion boards or forums pop up for the kink you have in mind. Social sites, like Fetlife or Yahoo Groups, provide a full network of different "groups" of kinksters at your disposal, but depending on how niche your kink is, you might have more luck going with an old-school discussion board. You'll find gatherings of people who enjoy a similar kink - and in many cases, lots of stories and experiences about how they've been practicing that kink in their everyday life. ![]() Either way, searching kink forums is a good way to view your kink in a new light. Have a particular kink in mind without too much inspiration about how to get the ball rolling with it in a scene? Or maybe you've just done that kink thousands of times in scenes and want a new take on it. If it distracts your brain enough to keep it from wandering, that's likely not the type of activity that's going to help you foster your daydreams. When we say "give yourself space", we don't mean zone out with television or music either. When you catch your brain attempting to do more work, gently guide it away from the serious parts of life. Sure, your brain will attempt to go back to that ever-lasting to-do list, but keep it in check. Eat your work lunch alone at a restaurant and let your mind wander. Go to the coffee shop and just take your coffee in-house as you enjoy some daydreams while you stare into the cup. Giving yourself space is hard, but it's ultimately rewarding in the creativity department. They're much more effective at making sure the fridge has groceries and you're up to date on your immunizations. ![]() It's because our constant "to-do" lifestyles aren't particularly conducive to brainstorming and daydreaming. There's a reason that writers and creative types have problems "performing" when everyday life is chipping away at them. This one can be a hard one with our busy everyday schedules, but a packed schedule is the death of creativity. Read: Making a Scene: How to Create the Hottest BDSM Encounters Give Yourself Space Write down the important aspects to you, and if you're feeling particularly helpful to future-you, include a list of all of the stuff you'll need to prep to get that scene off the ground. Not feeling inspired on Friday? Check the notebook for sexy ideas you had last month when you were really in the zone. ![]() While it doesn't need to be comprehensive or particularly thorough, having a written log of some of the kink ideas you've had will help when you hit a slump in the future. If you don't keep a notebook, journal, or saved cell phone note with some of your scene ideas, you should start sometime soon. This is honestly one of the biggest points off of this entire article. Consider some of these creativity boosters for when you're at a lull for how to bring all of your favorite BDSM elements together into a scene that'll leave you entirely satisfied. Hoping to give your brain a bit of the jump-start for your upcoming scene? We're here to help. If you don't give yourself time and space to find that creativity ahead of time, it usually doesn't just "appear" - especially when you're busy! Even when we schedule kink and sex in advance, the creativity doesn't magically appear on a schedule. ![]()
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